Wednesday, November 4, 2009

Sick Camp

Sorry we have been out of commission. I have been sick over the last week, no not H1N1, just a severe head cold that has laid me out flat. Today I feel as though I have a hangover effect but still much better from what I was. I have to say it stinks when you are sick but my dear husband makes sick quite enjoyable. He first heads to the store and stocks up on tissues, Gatorade, bottled water, treats, soup, movies, and any kind of medicine I may want at any point. Then he sets up sick camp for me. I have a sick station right next to the couch equipped with all of the above, plus blankets and heat packs. Then we proceed to sit & snuggle each day until I feel better. We completely ignore all house responsibilities & live solely on Old Grist Mill soup and take out. It's truly fabulous. Thanks for the tender loving care babe!

Now we realize if we had children this would be a difficult style of living, even if just for a few days, but we are becoming increasingly grateful for the little moments and traditions we have as a couple. A few weeks ago, my Relief Society lesson was on being happy in the now. It emphasized being happy with each stage of life you are in. This lesson made me realize although life is not unfolding how I had planned, I still have so much to be thankful for right now. I have a wonderful husband, beautiful home, an education, a good job, a loving family, friends and the opportunity to make a small difference in the world. We would give anything to be parents, but we are also happy in the now. We are happy with the amazing life we have made together. I suppose this marks a good start to a "thankful" month for me. I hope you all take a moment to realize how truly blessed each of you are, even if life has thrown you a few curve balls.

6 comments:

The Karlinsey Family said...

that is well said! I am sorry you are sick.Hope you get better fast.

I find myself always saying things will be better when clint is out of school or when the boys are in school... ect. I have a hard time enjoying the now but we had that same lesson and it really got me thinking that we will never get these times back and I should enjoy every minute even the not so fun ones.

Anonymous said...

Ooh! Being sick is no fun!! Your husband is so cute to do all that for ya!! It's amazing how being sick puts a whole new perspective on things. Even just simply being so much more grateful for our health. The relief of even a small amount of pain becomes a large blessing. Thanks for helping me to remember to be grateful! I have loved getting to know you better, thanks for your kindness and willingness to share!

Cody, Lisa & Lexi said...

i love this post! you two are so great for/to eachother, and honestly a great example of unconditional love for the rest of us! we love you guys! sorry you are sick though!

The Higley's said...

That is so sweet what Raymond does for you. What a great husband! And I totally agree with the other part of your post. Thanks for being such a great friend! Love you millions!!

Life as Linds said...

I am sorry you are so sick! I hope you get better soon.

Your last paragraph is something that hit very close to home. I wish you the best with everything. I am so impressed with your optimism. I need to take a big dose of Nicole positivity.

Kellie said...

Being sick is no good, but your sick camp that you have set up sounds like an alright thing to have around if you MUST be sick!! :)

I agree about being happy in the now! I need to try harder with that!